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Michelle's avatar

Man, you just gotta feel bad for sex offenders who have to wear the scarlet A after abusing their victims. Cause, ya know, the victims get to go on with their lives without any long term consequences from the abuse.

/end sarcasm/

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Lauren's avatar

My honest, but likely unpopular, mixed feelings:

Being a survivor of both incest and sexual assault, it would seem natural that I would be very against registered sex offenders being intermixed with a general church population. And I am...to some degree. However, the point made about how other sins are seen as redeemable, but this one is not seems a cause to pause.

I don't know what it looks like practically for registered sex offenders to be welcomed into the body of Christ as fellow sinners in need of a Savior (as we all are). I definitely have qualms about certain roles. It is such a challenging and nuanced topic.

Who am I to know the state of another's heart and mind? Who am I to know the work the Lord is doing in an individual's heart? And being kept in the proverbial "lepers colony" sends a pretty strong message that "we" are better and "they" are reprehensible.

If there is grace for me to change...is there not for every other person?

(Again - lots of sexual trauma in my past...so I deeply feel the tension in this discussion)

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